Over the last year, I have become increasingly more active in the ATVS thread. I have gotten to know quite a few of you and I feel like I know some you pretty while. This is totally off topic of LSU sports, but it's something that I have to put out there.
For the second straight relationship I have dated a girl for 2+ years, been apart of their families, was well liked. But they have come to an abrupt end. My girl friend broke up with me on Tuesday, completely by surprise, and moved out. In both circumstances it was completely unexpected, and no reasons have been stated to the cause of the break up other than cliches. "It's not you it's me" those types of things. It took me an extremely long amount of time to get over the first girl, 2.5 years, before I could give another a chance. But as I search for answers, the one things in common with these breaks ups are me. In college I was the same way, date girls for a substantial amount of time, minimum 9 month, but those didn't work out and it was obvious to both parties. But my last two string of relationships, I have gotten shit on out of no where. I am by many accounts nice, I have never cheated on a girl ever, I have never done drugs, I rarely drink, I have an exceptional job. But I cannot seem to find what my flaw is, and maybe I need to seek outside thinking processes from independent sources to discover something about myself that I cannot see. The latest girl, surprised me, my friends, her friends, and her family with this break up. So I don't believe I am being blind or myopic to only myself.
Anyways thanks in advance for any comments or help you can provide.